Get rid of indecisive energy & get what you want instead!

I wonder how far along you are in achieving that thing you dream about?

​You know the thing that lights a spark in you, like a little jolt of excitement whenever you think about it? Maybe that thing is increasing your income, or being free to take a holiday whenever you want for as long as you want, maybe it's moving to be bigger home or maybe it's working less hours for more money?

Whatever it is, are you somewhere on the path to achieving it or is it currently just feeling like some fantasy concept that will never become your reality? If it's the latter then I'd like to help!

I wanted to share something with you that has genuinely helped me start shifting out of daydreaming and into actual action towards achieving my goals.

I'll get straight to it!:
Get rid of indecisive energy
Indecisive energy can also be thought of as 'overwhelm'. It happens when you have so much going on in your life, that trying to take on anything new or different can just feel like overload.
You often end up stuck in limbo wanting to do something but not actually doing it because there's never enough time / energy / brain space to allow you to feel fully ready or able to commit to it. The decision - whatever decision is in front of you at the time - feels too hard to make so you never make it.
With indecisive energy, even decisions or actions that should feel exciting can weigh heavily on you. This is because, when already overwhelmed, you experience anything new as just more pressure on your already limited time & energy.
It's yet another thing for you to never quite get around to doing or completing which inevitably causes you some kind of feeling of guilt or frustration. You chide yourself for another opportunity missed. You might even find yourself avoiding trying new things or meeting new people because you instinctively sense that it could end up causing you more overwhelm.


All of this results in you staying exactly the same. When it comes to money - that means you can stagnate financially. Maybe it means you never look at your finances or take any real steps to improving them. Maybe it means you never look for a new job even though you know it's time. Maybe it's that you never allow yourself to try out a new idea that could seriously benefit you.
Everything just goes round and round in a cycle of "I'm not happy...life feels chaotic and busy.... I want to change it...changing it feels too hard & uncomfortable...I'll go back to doing what I was before... I'm not happy...."


So how do you get out of this cycle of overwhelm creating more overwhelm? And indecisiveness creating more indecisiveness?


The trick is to start making some decisions. It is the only way to make progress.


You literally have to CHOOSE your way forwards. The 10 prompts below are perfect ways to start clearing out the mental clutter that contributes to you feeling overwhelmed & indecisive. Start by just working through them - & actually actioning them wherever possible, then see how much better you feel afterwards.


10 ways you can clear your in-between energy:
1. If you've got multiple tabs open in your internet browser - close them. (You can always bookmark pages you don't want to loose)
2. If you have things waiting in online shopping baskets, or if you're watching things on eBay, decide to buy, delete or 'unwatch' them
3. Unsubscribe from magazines and other subscriptions you never have time to read or make use of (beauty boxes, software, online services, apps, tv subscriptions...etc)
4. Unsubscribe from emails that you never have time to read - use the 'block' feature in your inbox if they somehow keep getting through!
5. 'Unfollow' people on social media that are no longer relevant to you so that you stop receiving distracting updates from them
6. Delete any unfinished draft emails sitting in your email account - or finish & send them
7. If something keeps going round & round on your to-do list either do it, erase it or ask someone else to do it.
8. Have you got unclear commitments in your diary? Either commit and book them in or delete them & send apologies
9. Write the text, email or letter that you've been meaning to send your friend or loved one, and get it sent to them today
10. Declutter - donate or sell all those things around your home that you could happily do without


I know that once I'd completed the steps above I immediately felt lighter. The more I released all the 'I might...', 'Maybe I should...' & 'If I just...' energy surrounding the above distractions, the lighter & more spacious my head felt!


It's like practising your decision making skills in subtle easy ways that then empower you to move on & make bigger decisions.


Within days of doing the above clearing out, I arrived at a decision for my business that I'd been trying to make for months. No coincidence!


Give it a try and see what happens!


As a Money Breakthrough Coach I'm here to shift those feelings of being stuck, confused or overwhelmed so that you can instead experience powerful, energising clarity that will get you effortlessly on the path towards your goals & dreams. My coaching packages are designed to get you from where you are now, into the money freedom I know you'd love to have, in a way that will feels fun & exciting for you! Take a look a my website www.fireflyheartcoaching.com or email me if you'd like to learn more! ​

With love

Nikki x