In my last blog post I spoke about getting out of indecisive energy. This week I want to talk about priorities, and how to ensure you focus your valuable time & energy where it needs to be! What do you prioritise in daily life, and is it in line with what you want? What we end up prioritising is key to the life & experiences we end up creating for ourselves. It sounds simple but it's powerful when you stop & think about it! For example - I can't play the piano, but if i prioritised learning to play every day. there's a strong chance I'd quickly improve my skills until I reached a good level of competence! Whereas If I never prioritise learning it, then of course, I'm not going to get any better than my current skill level (which is non-existent!). As another example - if I want to make more money, then I need to prioritise taking actions that are more likely to bring me money such as advertising my business, having conversations with people who may become customers, selling things I no longer need...etc. By prioritising these things there's a strong chance I'm going to increase my money flow. Again, if I don't prioritise actions that help me make money, it makes it a lot less likely that I will gain any extra cash! The trouble is, in the noisy busyness of daily life, there's often a bit of a disconnect between what we think we are prioritising, and what we are actually prioritising.
I often think I've been prioritising working on my business, when truthfully I have been (unintentionally!) prioritising worrying about my business which takes up the same amount of time, but has a very different energy! Worrying about my business means I've been doing a lot of ruminating, self doubting and procrastination, and very little positive action! As per the law of attraction, we get more of what we focus on, so when I'm putting my energy into worry I get more things to worry about! Whereas when I prioritise taking positive actions that move my business forwards...I tend to be pretty successful in making progress! So how do you get clear on where your priorities have been, and then where they need to be going forwards? Here's a quick way to get some answers and resharpen your focus. Grab a pen and some paper and write the answer to the below questions: Part one: On what did you spend most of your time, thoughts, emotion & energy over the last 7 days?
These are you priorities! Now ask yourself, does the above list, match the priorities you thought you had? Part two: Thinking about that amazing dream or goal you have (the one I talked about last week that lights you up!)... what would you need to prioritise to help make that happen? List below! Or, alternatively what do you need to prioritise to enable you to live the life you would truly love to live? List below!
Part three: Which of the above new priorities could you start taking action on this week? How good will it feel at the end of next week when you can look back & know you took another step closer to your dream or goal?! One of the key features of Money Breakthrough Coaching is that it takes the confusion & exhaustion out of trying to reach your goals alone - it can be so hard to stay on course, stay positive and stay focused when you're only accountable to yourself. Our coaching sessions together are all about keeping you on track for success (whatever 'success' looks like for you personally!) - whether that's through clarifying what you actually want and then setting do-able positive steps that move you forwards, or clearing out old negative beliefs and self-imposed barriers! We'll have fun doing it & I know you will feel energised & ready to grab the life you've been dreaming of! It's all there for the taking! Find out more about working with me at www.fireflyheartcoaching.com! With love, Nikki x Comments are closed.
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